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Bullying Awareness

Recognize, respond to, and prevent bullying

35-45 minutes
Anti-Bullying
Certificate Included

What You'll Learn

Bullying is when someone repeatedly and intentionally hurts another person - physically, verbally, socially, or online. It's never okay, and it's not your fault if it happens to you.

In this workshop, you'll learn to recognize different types of bullying, strategies to respond safely and effectively, how to support others who are being bullied, and why telling an adult is always the right choice.

Key Learning Points

1

Recognize Bullying

Bullying is repeated, intentional harm - physical (hitting), verbal (name-calling), social (exclusion), or cyber (online harassment). One-time conflicts aren't bullying.

2

It's Never Your Fault

No one deserves to be bullied. Nothing you did, said, or are makes bullying okay. The problem is with the bully's behavior, not with you.

3

Telling is Not Tattling

Tattling is trying to get someone in trouble. Telling is trying to get someone OUT of trouble. Always tell a trusted adult about bullying.

4

Bystanders Have Power

When you see bullying, you can: safely speak up, get help from an adult, or support the person being bullied afterward. Silent bystanders accidentally encourage bullies.

Activity 1: Types of Bullying

Learn to identify different forms

Match each scenario to its type of bullying. Understanding different forms helps you recognize and report it.

👊 Physical Bullying

Examples: Hitting, kicking, pushing, taking belongings, destroying property

Action: Tell an adult immediately - this is serious and needs quick intervention.

💬 Verbal Bullying

Examples: Name-calling, insults, threats, teasing that hurts, inappropriate comments

Action: Use assertive responses, walk away, tell an adult if it continues.

👥 Social Bullying

Examples: Exclusion on purpose, spreading rumors, public embarrassment, turning friends against someone

Action: Document what's happening, tell an adult, find supportive friends.

💻 Cyberbullying

Examples: Mean messages, sharing embarrassing photos, fake accounts, online harassment

Action: Don't respond, save evidence, block the person, tell an adult immediately.

🚨 Important: What's NOT Bullying

  • ✓ One-time argument or fight
  • ✓ Not being invited to everything (you can't invite everyone always)
  • ✓ Friendly teasing that both people enjoy
  • ✓ Someone not wanting to be your friend (that's their choice)
  • ✓ Fair consequences from adults (rules and discipline)

Activity 2: Response Strategies

Practice what to say and do

Learn assertive responses that keep you safe. Choose strategies that feel right for YOU.
Use a firm voice: "Stop. I don't like that." Then walk away with confidence
Don't show reaction: Bullies often want to see you upset - staying calm takes away their power
Use humor (if safe): Agree in a funny way: "Yep, that's me!" to deflect
Stay near adults: Bullying happens less when adults are around
Use buddy system: Stay with friends - bullies target people who are alone
Document everything: Keep records of what happened, when, where, and who was there
Tell an adult: Keep telling until someone helps - you deserve to be safe

✍️ Practice Responses:

Write what YOU would say in these situations:

Activity 3: Bystander Power

How to help when you witness bullying

When you see bullying, you have choices. Always prioritize YOUR safety first, but there are ways to help.

🗣️ Speak Up (if safe)

Say: "That's not cool" or "Leave them alone" or "Let's go" (to the person being bullied)

Only if you feel safe to do so!

🚨 Get Help

Action: Find a teacher, coach, parent, or adult immediately. Tell them what you saw.

This is ALWAYS a good option!

🤝 Support Later

Do: Check on the person afterward. "Are you okay?" "That wasn't right." "Want to hang out?"

Your support means everything!

🚫 Don't Join In

Never: Laugh, record it, share it, or encourage the bully. Walk away if you can't help.

Silence is better than participation.

💭 Reflection:

Activity 4: Your Trusted Adult Network

Identify who can help you

Make a list of trusted adults you can go to if you're being bullied or see bullying. Having a plan makes it easier to get help.

📝 My Trusted Adults:

📞 Remember:

  • ✓ If one adult doesn't help, tell another - keep trying!
  • ✓ You can tell any trusted adult, not just your parents
  • ✓ It's never tattling when someone is being hurt
  • ✓ You can ask an adult to help anonymously if needed

Final Reflection

"What's the most important thing you learned about bullying? How will you use this information to help yourself or others? What would you tell a friend who's being bullied?"

Congratulations!

You've completed the Bullying Awareness workshop

  • Learned to recognize types of bullying
  • Practiced response strategies
  • Understood bystander power
  • Created your trusted adult network
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